In less than two months, my son will turn 4 years old. As the turbulent toddler years come to a close (hopefully!), I can reflect on and even laugh at the challenges that I've faced raising my son. In the midst of the battle, I've learned a lot about 3-year-old boys. And I wouldn't trade the experience for the world.
- They love their mommas.
- Except when you won't let them have candy for breakfast.
- Until you play superheroes with them and then all is right in the world again.
- They can turn almost anything into a gun, sword, or weapon of mass destruction.
- But often use them to fight the "bad guys" so that's okay. Right?!
- They like to talk and talk and talk.
- Unless they are watching PAW Patrol on television and then they will ignore you.
- They have an endless supply of energy.
- You could become a billionaire if you figured out how to bottle it up and sell it to parents of toddler boys.
- They like to do everything themselves.
- Let them - it's great for building independence and you'll thank yourself later.
- You will worry that their rough play is a sign that they will one day become a bully.
- Until you see them help a friend or pet an animal.
- Their hugs are the best.
- They will acquire lots of bumps, bruises, and scrapes.
- After the tears, he'll love showing off his Ninja Turtle bandage to his friends.
- Cutting their sandwich the wrong way may end up in a tantrum like no other.
- Take a deep breath, wait for the tide to past, sympathize but never give into the tantrum.
- They may resist potty training.
- Unless they are peeing outside.
- Even when you think they are fully potty trained, accidents may continue for a long, LONG time.
- Potty words are hysterical.
- They want to be just like dad.
- And steals every tool they can get their hands on.
- You'll marvel at their imagination.
- As you get swallowed up by a gigantic purple octopus from outer space riding the batmobile.
- They will have a strong opinion about their clothes and will insist on the same shirt every day.
- But when they get home from preschool, all the clothes come off.
- Getting them out the door is like herding cats.
- Unless you are going to the playground or for ice cream.
- They are competitive about EVERY thing.
- This drive will serve them well in sports, academics, and life.
- They look up to their big sisters and brothers.
- But they don't always show it in obvious ways (ahem - hitting, biting, scratching).
- They have the funniest pouting faces.
- Try not to laugh because that makes them really mad.
- Under all the emotions and 3-year-old behaviors is a heart of gold.
- He will misbehave but he is a good kid.
- Tell him this and how much you love him.
- Every day.
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